Divorce

Divorce is one of the most difficult stages of anyone’s life. It will bring out negative emotions – from depression to anxiety to anger and more. You most likely will experience extreme bouts of stress, which could affect your daily life and even your career. The best thing to do for yourself while you are going through a divorce is to learn how to cope with that stress – and hopefully, not let the divorce ruin your life or interfere with your relationship with your children. Five Tips for Coping…

These days, most consumers are about DIY. You can find most of the information you need online, and there are plenty of websites out there that claim to help you through whatever it is you’re trying to achieve. While this is fine for some things, doing your own divorce should never be a consideration. Do-it-yourself divorces may sound enticing, but they are riddled with risks – and could result in serious errors or even an unfair settlement. What is a Pro Se Divorce? Pro se is a legal term that…

Collaborative divorces are divorces wherein the spouses agree to work through their divorce together, instead of going to court. This is an option that every divorcing couple has, but rarely do they use. Collaborative divorces are becoming increasingly common – especially as more couples realize the time and cost savings versus going through a courtroom divorce. The collaborative process is different for every divorce. While some will spend a large majority of their time hashing out assets and child custody, other times, it is nothing more than showing up to…

Divorce is not an easy process – even if you are the one initiating the proceeding. Regardless of how long you were married, divorce takes an emotional toll that no one expects and no one can prepare for adequately enough. With emotions heightened, it is easy to act unlike yourself. But, it is important to do what you can to divorce with dignity and keep your own self-respect intact – regardless of how your spouse reacts to the process. Tips for Keeping Your Dignity 1. Speak to your spouse. Talk…

There are plenty of misconceptions about divorce. From alimony payments to the divorce process and statutes, it is important that you separate fact from fiction. A divorce is a life-changing event and one that should not be done without research and a little self-education. Also, if you are considering divorce, it is in your best interest to contact an attorney to help navigate you through the complexities of the statutes in California, and any special circumstances that may apply to your divorce case. The following are common misconceptions held by…

Divorce is a confusing, emotional time. Not only are you venturing into a territory you do not know, but you are also dealing with an entire life change. It is not uncommon to feel lost and wonder what you are supposed to do next in the process. You should always consult your family law attorney to find out specifically what you should and should not do during the divorce process, as it pertains to your particular case. How you act during your divorce can determine much of the future, and…

Invalid marriages do not occur often, but when they do, they can leave one or both parties in that divorce at a loss. The courts do not always recognize marriages and sometimes one spouse may assume they had a legal marriage because they were tricked into thinking so. But, what happens when one spouse assumes the marriage is valid and files for divorce? Will they receive support or divide assets? The answer will depend on several factors. What Makes a Marriage Invalid? A couple may find that their marriage is…

Divorces are by far one of the most stressful situations anyone will have to endure. While there are numerous coping methods at your disposal to help you get through it all, technology may actually be one of the best alternatives. You most likely use technology in your daily life to stay organized, in contact, etc., but have you considered how it may help you cope with your divorce? There are apps out there today that can actually help make divorce less stressful – and possibly alleviate the disorganized feel that…

Divorce can be difficult to navigate. The road is unfamiliar and not even the best GPS can deliver you safely to the other side. To keep yourself on the right road, we have compiled a list of seven important things to remember when divorcing. Follow these guidelines to avoid wrong turns. Do not drag the kids into the divorce. Leave the kids out of it. Putting the kids in the middle takes many forms: asking probing questions about the other parent’s activities and prying, using them as messengers, and talking…

Divorces are often preceded by financial strife, which is why many couples opt to file for bankruptcy along with the divorce. Both issues can be emotionally charged, but they can represent a fresh start for both spouses. As we’ll discuss in more detail below, the most logical order for this to happen is to file for bankruptcy first. Filing for Bankruptcy Before Divorce Saves Money Because funds are likely low at this point, it makes sense to file one bankruptcy proceeding, rather than two, which can only be done while…